We asked. You told us.

At the end of the Men/Women’s session in Montebello we asked each of you to check off one thing that you wish your spouse knew about you. Remember that? Well, here are the top 5 answers for each:

One thing I wish my husband knew…

#1 I want to be a priority – before work, kids, parents, activities and friends. 23%
#2 I need your affirmation and appreciation.
Affirmation – who I am
Appreciation – what I do
16%
#3 I want you to lead. 11%
#3 Our spiritual oneness – and your spiritual leadership – matters to me. 11%
#5 Security is a bid deal. I need to know you’re all in. 9%
One thing I wish my wife knew…

#1 I need your affirmation and appreciation.
Affirmation – who I am
Appreciation – what I do
23%
#2 Doing stuff together is important. 18%
#3 I have some insecurities. (appearance, performance, sex, being enough for you, _________) 10%
#4 I need your respect. 10%
#5 Appearance matters. 8%

 

Written by Grace Kim