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Trusting God Through the Seasons of Life

by | Mar 30, 2020 | Marriage, Spiritual Connection

Lord, I want to trust you, but I don’t know how!

When life throws that curve ball and you have the wind knocked out of you, what do you do? Where do you turn?

When we were kids, we used to put a small hole in each end of an egg and then blow the contents out. The egg looked like any other in the bowl, but it was hollow. When pressure was applied to it, it broke easily into shattered pieces. I often think of that egg as I field life’s curve balls and as I watch others do the same. A hollowness in our souls will leave us feeling shattered from the pressures of life.

When a relationship becomes strained, when illness robs your days, when your stomach churns with the stress of unpaid bills, when the unexpected happens, do you crumble like a hollow eggshell? Or do you know where to find strength for your inner soul?

God’s Word, the Bible, has principles for living. Principles written for us by the very God who created us and understands the hollowness that can creep unbidden into our souls. This is not merely positive thinking or visualization, this is help from the God of the universe, the same God who sent His son Jesus to be the source of everything we need to face the curve balls of life.

Listen to the promise for you that comes straight from the heart of Father God:

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

Romans 15:13

Did you hear it? Joy, peace, and hope are offered to you by the God of hope! This is not just a promise to “get by” or to be a “survivor” — it’s a promise to overflow with hope — to be filled with joy and peace!

Sounds a bit like fluff, doesn’t it? Is it really possible to be pulled from the pit of despair and overflow with hope? Yes, but it’s supernatural, it’s only through God. And He only does it when we do our part.

So what is our part? It’s that little phrase sandwiched in between the promise of being filled with joy and peace and the promise of overflowing with hope. Our part is an individual thing — “as you trust in Him.”

But how? How does one trust? In the storms of life, people desperately want to trust this God who offers hope, but many simply don’t know how, when the waves come fast and threaten to pull them under.

God even gives us the formula in His Word. It comes from the book in the Bible named “Lamentations.”

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; Great is His faithfulness.”

Lamentations 3: 22-23

When trouble strikes and our hearts grow faint, we so often forget the great love our Father in Heaven has for us. We begin to doubt the goodness of God toward us. When that happens, we begin to be consumed by our stress and our fears and then, as a consequence, we blame God. When we recall God’s great love for us, reminding ourselves daily of His compassion, our hearts gain strength.

God knows the daily need we have to remember His kindness toward us in the middle of our unkind circumstances, so He calls us to focus on it every morning. His unfailing compassion carries us through our day and all the hard points in our present storm. Has hope, peace, and strength vanished in the wind of your storm? His peace, His strength, His wisdom, His understanding, His hope will become yours as you ask Him for it — supernaturally His source of whatever you need today will become yours.

As you lean into His great love for you today, and lean on His resources, you will not be consumed, you will not be crushed like the hollow eggshell. You will find Him faithful, step by step by step — that’s trusting.

Never doubt the love and the goodness of God. He doesn’t promise a storm-free life, but He does promise to be the anchor in the storm so that you will not be overcome!

Trust Him daily. Then trust Him hourly. Then learn to trust Him moment by moment. His resources will not only get you through, but you will truly grow to experience Him as the source of hope overflowing “by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

Try Him. Trust Him. He is our faithful God!