Don’t get revenge on the destructive parent in the other home. Instead, become aggressive with good.
Turn off the blender. Low heat and a lot of time is the key to integrating your stepfamily.
Once you’re caught in the swamp of resentment, it’s tough to extract yourself. It clings to you.
Making the transition in becoming a stepmom or stepdad may be daunting, but it’s very doable.