How can you change from “fight or flight” to trusting your spouse?
When you both work, how you divide up the housework can become contentious very quickly.
Differences between spouses are not problems to be solved, they help us solve our biggest problem: selfishness.
Instead of saying, “Honey we need to talk,” try saying, “Honey, I want to listen.”
A little annoyance in dating can lead to deep feelings of contempt 20 years into marriage.
The trick is knowing how to stick together through it all.