Troy has over 30 years of pastoral and leadership experience. His day job sees him training, teaching, mentoring and coaching leaders but catch him when he is alone and you'll discover he is addicted to reading. Married to a woman he calls his best friend, greatest fan and most instructive critic.
We want to clearly and carefully say there is a difference between a destructive/abusive marriage and a difficult or disappointing marriage. In this situation the abuser is male, so we use the pronoun he. [...]